Make him feel like he's home with you and you'll get what you want. Are you sure you want to delete this answer? It's a fine age gap for anyone. Don't make us decide, follow your heart. The second she starts to slow down in the bedroom or starts losing her looks, he'll start looking elsewhere.
If it's working for you then that's all there is to the matter. As far as I'm concerned it's fine. We are so similar in our ways of thinking, our core values, what we want from life, how long to wait everything really and we seem to have a deep soul connection.
She, on the other hand, never seemed to get over the age gap. That said, while it's normal to worry about it briefly, if you stick with these concerns, it might mean that there are some lingering insecurities. As the bard said, love the one you're with.
You and I most likely have virtually identical life experiences and overall approaches to the world. We weren't a good match and one of the things that stuck out to me was the difference in maturity. Love and attraction aren't enough, there has to be more there to sustain a long-term relationship, compatibility on all levels. You fall in love with whom you fall in love with.
Just be open and honest, listen to both your heart and your mind, and it is hard for things to go too wrong. How will you ever know if you never try or are you afraid that someone disagrees? In both relationships, for I very much felt we were equals. Or you could realize you're being ridiculous and ask this one out now.
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Why don't you ask her our first and start dating and then see if you two are compatible? Ask her out if you are ok with dating an older woman. This is not enough data to say anything about you. Bcoz some guys do this only for sex with old womens so b careful. Do I have a chance with my ex?
It sounds like you don't respect this woman, or at least, the age difference is a deal breaker for you. The older party being a woman doesn't somehow make it wrong, that's a sexist double standard and it's bullshit. Most of the time we found out each others ages after we started dating and it just wasn't an issue for either of us.
As a year old, I dated a year old. We made a great couple, and were together for years as well. My wife is five years older than me. But the fact that it concerns you and you have to ask this question says to me, pretty strongly, that you personally shouldn't date this woman.
Maggi, how many of your relationships had the partner near to your age? Don't go fishing subconsciously or not for reasons to not go for it. In all cases, it was two people being attracted to each other, not two numbers.
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And it wasn't because of our ages that it didn't work out. The heck what people may say, relax and enjoy the ride. Life is too short, Life is too short, Life is too short to not take a chance. Also distance features into the equation but for me the age thing is a much bigger deal. It was a lot of fun and we parted friends.
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They might be the love of your life! Answer Questions Can you have a good relationship if you have sex on the second date? So ask her out first, see how it goes, and don't overthink the age thing. If that's the case with you then believe in it and give him a chance.
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Two people, well met, signs you're dating who happened to have an age gap. The second marriage we were exactly the same age. Additional giveaways are planned. The reasons it didn't work out had nothing to do with our age gap.
- Yeah, I think you're probably too immature for this relationship, dude.
- It's never been any kind of issue.
- Eventually he was transferred to another city and that was that, but we had a terrific time.
- Never think about the Age and most importantly never think about what others will think or say or else nothing will work out.
Do not let people like this drag you down to their level. Well it's crazy because we work in the same place. But please make sure she never sees this question or knows about your concerns because it would be really hurtful and if I were her it would be amble reason to not date you or to dump you if I was.
Whomever started that cougar and milf shit should die in a fire. The age difference is just a number. As he will be getting older, he will start looking at y olds that will be all over him, and you won't be able to compete. Although women tend to live longer, they also age faster. No one, including the two of us, gave any thought to the age difference, because it was never evident.
How do I know if a guy would make a good boyfriend or just sees me as a conquest? If you wait for the other shoe to fall, you won't enjoy today. If that is the case, there shouldn't be a hangup with a relationship.
All I can say is if you approach it like that it will never work out anyway. Yet, I still worry about what everyone would think of me and whether it has any hope of working out. If you're ashamed of her or of yourself because of her age, do her the favor of breaking things off so that she can find someone who is proud to be with her. If it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. We began sleeping together recently, and i just been told by my parents not to get too involved because it won't last.
It's good to know you are well. Maturity might be an issue, but you'll get that in any relationship, irrespective of the age difference. Based on my experience, no, the age difference doesn't make any difference whatsoever if it's the right person. Gf embarrassed me in front of her friends?
- She might chose to make this a non-issue for you.
- There's no right or wrong in this sort of situation.
- Your obviously trying to justify being together but your just hung up on age which seems to be the only obstacle as suggested by your post.